1. Many ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure – it is so
disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes
on a mobile phone from morning to night,
only to raise it up to focus on television to
watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell, what else will dominate this
lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake
celebrity life being promoted on television
2. Many ladies now dislike cooking and home
chores just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men
playing the role of women in a family, and
due to excessive exposure to modern media
that promotes gender-equalityin a destructive
way that’saimed at destroying family
settingthat made our previous
marriageseverlasting. Now, with this attitude,
how do you expect a man to desire to marry
when he knows he is only buying more
headache and trouble than helperfor himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have
observed, you will discover that most men
dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t
even like it at all; reason theyoften times
discourage their true loved ones to do away
with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though
so many men will applaud and complement
you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A
slight makeup is okay; but if you are outfor
marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded,except you are still living in
your high school life and not thinking
towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every
Joystick & Harry! No man would want to
propose marriage to a lady whose phone is
always talking and laughing with unserious
calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would
judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of
Men You Date or Are Dating- because your
best friend married without contributing
anything to the man that finally married her,
doesn’t mean it will work for you that way.
Think, work towards equipping yourself so
that you can be a value and also add value to
his life to convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to hislife isn’t by
giving him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being his best friend,
helping him attain his goals in life,lending him
moral, mental and spiritual support, and by
not just being a liability that only bring
requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you
expect to find a husband when you still allow
yourclique of friends to be dictating which
man you meet is worthy of your love and
which is not? When will you wake up and
face the factthat those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn’twant you
to marry before them orto marry the best
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a
single lady who has not been taken to the
altar, you need to reserve some things for
your husband to be, especially your body,
respect it and preserveit at all cost. In the
past, men rushed to marry to get certain
things or privileges they had beenconstantly
denied while being single. Such privileges
include andnot limited to: constant s*x and
companionship, good food and tidied home,
etc. But today, a single man gets even the best
andof course more of constant s*x, good
food and excellent home-keeping more than
his married counterparts, so tell me how the
hell you want him to desire to marry you
when you have given him virtually everything
he desires from a wife while being his
girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is
that he knows that you are prepared to cut
down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping,
etc once he marries you, so why would he not
want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package yourself wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you look more
whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable.
Your dressing style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If you dress high
school, only high school-thinkingguys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress excessively
sexy and provocative, only randy men will
come to you for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate s*x urge, so don’t be fooled by
media hyping of certain kinds of dressing,
they are meant for certain set of ladies you
wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are
good for a seriously searching for a soul mate
single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and
Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot
girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you
so many men; both the good, and the bad,
but your inner beauty, your character and
manner are the things that will determine
whether any of those men would stay or run
after accomplishing their evil missions.
Scholar’s Pen.



  1. Nice, but unfortunately none of those apply to me… I just will not date a guy who cannot understand evolution, never read a book, cannot name at least 5 plays by Shakespeare, does not appreaciate Pink Floyd, wants a girl with big boobs, long nails and no brain… So, I guess, you should add 11 (10th) reason: stupid guys. :)

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